What a Girl Wants!What a Girl Needs!

Since I have been “Back in the Game” I have been asked the same question by almost every guy.”What are you looking for in a Man?”This is a simple question for me,but it does get old repeating it every night.So I am writing this Blog and will refer all future dates to it before we go “Out & About”.
1. I want a guy who likes an “Old Fashioned” girl.One who likes her chairs pulled out and doors opened for her.One who doesn’t call or text guys until in a Relationship with them.One that wants a guy who wants only her.
2. I want a guy who calls me(to see if I made it safely) when I leave him to go home.If he doesn’t,then that is a clear sign there should be no more dates.
3. I want a guy who finds me Desirable,but doesn’t Desire to show me Immediately.
4. I want a guy who,although he may not agree with all my Morals,Values,and Beliefs,Respects and Abides by them.As I would also do for him.
5.I want a man who Makes time for me.Not has time for me,but makes an effort in this busy world to spend time with me on a daily basis.If only a Lunch Date or a Stop by for a Quick Good Night Kiss.Anything to say,”You are Important to me”!!
6. I want a guy who when I’m Sick or Sad will find a way to make me feel Better and Loved.You would be Surprised at how far a little TLC will Improve a Girl’s Health and Heart.
7. I want a guy who is Confident not Cocky.Confidence is my “Turn-On”.Cockiness is my “Turn-Off”!!
8. I want a guy who wants a family not just a wife.I’m a Package deal!A guy who helps clean,not just helps mess up.Or can afford a Maid cuz I ain’t one!! haha
9. I want a guy who has Goals and helps me obtain my Goals.
10. I want a guy who has a J-O-B(with Insurance)!! He doesn’t have to be Rich,but having another mouth to feed is not a Plus for me.
11. I want a guy who is not Selfish and thinks of my boys and I first before himself. As I would always do with him.
12. I want a guy who is fun and funny.That equals Sexy for me.If you can make me Laugh or Laugh with me, I think you are the most Handsome Man in the World.
13. I want a guy who ignites Fireworks in me.I wanna feel Sparks when I see him enter a room.I wanna think of him and get Giggly!!!
14. I want a guy who Kisses me and takes my Breath away.A good Kisser is a MUST with me.Sorry,but if your a Bad Kisser there will never be anything between us.
15. I want a guy who likes to Cuddle and hold hands and give Massages.If you can paint toe-nails that’s a plus but not required.lol
16. I want a guy who thinks I’m Beautiful,not just sexy or hot.A guy who is just as turned on by me in sweats as in a mini-skirt.No matter what my hip to waist Ratio is he still Adores me.I’m just saying is all!!
17. I want a guy, who will do guy things(I can’t do well)with my boys.A guy who if he likes Sports,doesn’t require me to be knowledgeable in that area.I love going to games but don’t no Jack about what I’m watching!!
18. I want a guy who is a dog lover.Not a cat lover,as we are Allergic to cats.
19. I want a guy who is my Defender in all situations.I was raised with brothers and worked for many years in clubs and bars.So I am pretty good at taking up for myself.But what girl doesn’t want her Knight n Shining Armor by her side?
20. I want a guy who will take the time to communicate with me.Enough that he knows me better than anyone and knows what I need and how I feel without always having to say it aloud.
21. I want a guy who never forgets me on Holidays.A guy who makes my B-day and Mother’s day and our Anniversary & Valentines Day more special each year.
22.I want a guy who will dance with me!! Anywhere and Everywhere. In our home,under the stars,at a Restaurant.With Music or without!!
23. I want a guy who is Romantic.Bubble Baths and Rose Petals and Dedicating our Fav.song to me on the Radio.
24. I want a guy who will take us on Vacation and truly make it a Vacation.
25. I want a guy who makes me smile and it reaches my eyes.
This is what I am looking for in a Man. A man who is my Pride and Joy.One who I Trust and Respect and Love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

4 comments August 31, 2009

My Seven Wonders of the World

A dear friend of mine recently tagged me in a note about the “Seven Wonders of the World”.It was sweet and thought provoking.As I began thinking on the subject I soon realized that the Wonders of the World for me had changed totally in the last few years.I had always said I wanted to visit the “Seven Wonders of the World”before I died.I had the same list in my head as so many people do when they think of the “Seven Wonders of the World”.Now as I thought of the sites I wanted to see before my death I could think of  none from my previous list.So join me as we travel around the world,visiting Friends and Wonderful Destinations.

1. Israel. A place thought by many to be a Wonder of the World. It is my #1  because it is where my Favorite Man Lived and Died for me.Bethlehem,Nazareth,and Jerusalem are the main cities in and around Israel I want to visit.This Holy Land is Top of my List of Precious places.Just being in the land where my God once walked and talked should be enough said on why I Dream of one day visiting this Biblical Oasis.

2. Greece. I have such a Desire to one day go to this Special Location.I want to see the Parthenon in the Acropolis of Athens.I want to go to Epidauros and attend an Event in the largest Open-Air Theater,where 14,000 people can hear a whisper on the Stage.Although, I am a Beach Bum by nature,I would be weary of sun bathing while at this Destination.As so many know,Greece is known for their Nude Beaches(there are parts of this body that don’t need to see the light of day),but I do want to swim with the Dolphins in the Aegean Sea.What I want to do in Greece more than anything else is watch a Spectacular Sunset in Oia,Santorini with someone who has pulled me up out of a “Pit”of Despair more times than I care to remember.One day I will see the Sun Set on a Beautiful Greek Day with my Favorite Friend.

3.Trinidad & Tobago. I am not a Fan of Planes!! Thankfully,I have a Friend who is least of many things a Pilot.He is someone who is smart and caring.He is also a future candidate for Prime Minister of this Beautiful Caribbean Dream.So I have no doubt if he is my Pilot I will make it to this Paradise safely and maybe even calmly.I want to attend the “World’s Greatest” Carnival  with all my new friends from TnT .I want to walk the beaches and play with the Sea Turtles that come there to nest.I want to learn to play Cricket(which I hear is similar to our Baseball)from a Tall,Dark, & Handsome Man.TnT has one of only two Pitch{Tar} Lakes in the world(Australia has the other),but I have requested that no Feathers be brought to this sightseeing excursion.HaHa

4. France. The “City of Love”. Need I say more Ladies.O.K. I will!! lol  I have a Cheeky French Navy Friend in this Country.He teases me with Dreams and if given the chance I wanna see that Gorgeous Smile that Lights up his Eyes.If only for an hour,a day,or a week.Oh and I guess I could see the Eiffel Tower and Louvre Museum and even the Notre Dame Cathedral while I’m Dreaming!!

5.San Francisco. I am a “Charmed” Nut. Yes,and so are my boys.We have talked of going here on our next vacation.We want to see the Golden Gate Bridge,Alcatraz,and the Cable cars.Anything and Everything we have seen on the “Charmed” Episodes. “Frank”ly though I want to visit a friend who has been my Rock for some time now.I wanna Cruz the Beaches and just Hang Out Face to Face Finally.

6. Egypt. For this Trip I want to take my friend Joey with me.She needs to see her Egyptian Man as much as possible.We will ride Camels to see the Great Pyramids,take a Nile Cruise,and simply relax on the Beach, with a view of Egyptian Hotties.

7. India. This adventure is one that I am “Lucky” enough to have a Promised Tour Guide Available.I will see the Taj Mahal,and The Red Fort,and as always , Sun Bathe on a Beautiful Beach.

Well I hope you have had Fun traveling with me thru My “Wonders of the World”.Feel free to give me Your “Wonders of the World”.So I can travel with you to Exotic and Exciting Places.

2 comments August 31, 2009